双语阅读：20多岁时恋爱你需要了解的十件事(2)
Avoid posting pics on Facebook every time you kiss, or Tweeting about your plans every other minute. While people may be happy about your relationship, they don’t want to hear about it 24/7.
不要每次都把亲吻的照片都放到Facebook上，也不要每次有什么计划就发推。尽管人们可能因你开始恋爱了而感到高兴，但他们不希望一天到晚全是这件事。
7. Be Yourself & Let Your Partner Do The Same
做自己，也给对方做自己的机会
One of the key aspects of every relationship is letting yourself and your special someone be themselves. You were attracted to this person for a reason, and there’s no need to try and change them.
恋爱中关键的一点是，让自己和你的那个她(他)做自己。你被对方吸引不无缘由，没必要下功夫去改变他们。
Likewise, don’t let someone try to change you. You are who you are, and if that’s not good enough for either of you, then this isn’t really a relationship that’s going to work.
同样，不要让对方改变你，你就是你，如果互相觉得不适合，那不如趁早散伙。
8. Be Adventurous & Enjoy Your Time Together
敢于尝试，并一起享受生活
This is another one that’s very important. Remember that you’re still in your 20s and you should be having as much fun as possible.
这也是很重要的一点。你们才20多岁，应该尽情地享受生活。
Set aside time to do both of your favorite activities and hobbies. Be adventurous and try something new that you’ve both never done before. Don’t take yourself that seriously. Make jokes and laugh about anything and everything.
为喜爱的活动与爱好留出时间。敢于冒险，尝试新事物。别太把自己太当回事，说说笑话，尽情欢笑。
9. Communication is Important
交流亦重要
Every relationship expert will emphasize the importance of communication in a long-lasting relationship. Each night, talk about your day, your concerns, your thoughts, and your dreams with one another. As the other person is talking, be sure to listen attentively, and communicate your interests and feelings.
恋爱专家都强调交流在持久恋爱过程中的重要性。晚上，一起聊聊白天的工作、关心的事情、想法和梦想。当对方讲述时，用心倾听，了解对方的兴趣和感受。
10. Trust, But Without Being Naive
信任，但不抱幻想
Trust is important. It’s the backbone of all relationships, especially those in your 20s. Avoid hacking your loved one’s cell phone, computer, and emails. This isn’t going to solve anything.
信任很重要，它是各种关系的基石，尤其对20多岁的年轻人来说。不要窥探爱人的手机、电脑和邮件。这解决不了问题。
When situations arise, trust only reliable sources, such as those who aren’t trying to sabotage your relationship. On the flip side, don’t be naive about the situation either.
有疑问时，只依赖可靠信息源，例如那些没有破坏你恋爱关系企图的人。如果确有情况，也不要抱有天真幻想。
You both deserve to be happy, and if things don’t work out, as they say, there are other fish in the sea.
你们两人都应该快乐，如果恋爱不成功，记住人们常说的那句话，天涯何处无芳草。
Following these simple relationship rules—if you’re meant to be together—is truly the way to make your relationship work, and last a lifetime.
如果你们注定在一起，遵循这些简单的恋爱准则毫无疑问会促进你们的关系，并让你受益终生。
